You can't lie to yourself.

I've noticed that many things are more than meets the eye. Like people for example, they may seem like an innocent flower but really what you don't see is the snake lurking beneath it. Today my friend tripped down the stairs and started to cry. I asked her why and she replied about her breakup. It was surprising because she could act like nothing was bothering her before. When i asked her obviously i thought she was crying about the pain from falling, but what i didnt notice was the pain in her heart was much worse. People also tend to hide their innermost feelings. They can smile, laugh, and joke around like nothings wrong. They can lie to the world but nothing can fool themselves. I think these people are the saddest.

Being upset or crying doesnt make you WEAK. Putting on a mask and pretending nothing is wrong doesnt make you STRONG. The people that can see this problem, accept it, and do something about it are the people that are truly strong. Those who fake happiness while crying yourself to sleep & do nothing to try to fix it will eventually just break down. They are the ones that are stuck in a loophole. They will always be depressed because nothing will change. If you want to be happy, create your own path. Follow your heart. Nothing comes easy, true happiness&love isn't created easily. Its a step by step process. There are times where you will stumble but whats important is standing up again, learning from your mistakes, and being even stronger each time. Shit happens to everyone, some people just deal with it better.

So next time you see someone crying, ask them why they are crying. Maybe its not the obvious reason that you can see. Maybe its because of something deeper. You never know; what they say may suprise you.

PS: i wonder if anyone even reads my blog? hahaha its for myself thought!